The Night "Fine" Finally Dies

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I used to profoundly care about what people thought. 

I let my boss decide how late I stayed at the office, how many weekends I sacrificed, and whether I had “earned” a break. 

I anchored my worth to what I did for other people.

If they approved, I felt valuable. 

If they didn’t, I felt disposable.

I let a partner convince me that my emotions were “too much.” That I was dramatic. That my tears, my fire, my passion were liabilities instead of life force.

I let friends tell me to “just have one drink” even when I knew my anxiety would come roaring back the next morning.

I sat in doctors’ offices while they told me I was too old for a baby. As if my body’s possibilities could be reduced to a number on their chart.

And when I finally walked away from a six-figure job, I was told I was irresponsible. That I was ruining my life. That trading a corporate title for waitressing at happy hour and an unpaid internship at 36 meant I had lost my mind.

But they were all wrong.

Because here’s the truth: every single one of those judgments, labels, and warnings wasn’t about me at all.

It was about them.

Their fears.

Their limits.

Their inability to imagine their life another way, take a risk or walk into betterment.

What they were really saying was:

I don’t think I could do that.

It had nothing to do with me.

I now know that the second you hand over the steering wheel of your life, you’re not actually living your life anymore. You’re living inside someone else’s fear.

Their limits. Their “what ifs.”

And that’s why Become Her is so damn important.

It’s the antidote to all the voices that tell you to wait, to play it safe, to second-guess what you want.

Inside the thread, women are naming the things they’ve swallowed for years. They’re writing the words they never dared to say out loud. They’re taking steps they thought they weren’t ready for—steps that are messy and holy and real.

And this Thursday? We’re not dipping our toes in. 

We’re ripping it wide freaking open in the most glorious, magical, empowering way.

The Unfiltered F*ck Yes is the rawest call I’ve ever hosted

It’s the words you’ve swallowed finally breaking free.

It’s the thing in your chest you can’t ignore anymore.

It’s saying it out loud, in a room that won’t flinch.

🚨 This call is so raw, so powerful, so GD magical, it call MUST be attended live. No replay will be available. 

But here’s what is available the second you step inside 👇

👉 Join Become Her and get…

✔ Instant access the the group magic the moment you sign up

✔ A live seat at The Unfiltered F*ck Yes

✔ Access to Yes, I Am Too Much LIVE next Thursday

✔ Weekly prompts that cut straight to the truth

✔ Real-time voice + messages from me inside the thread

✔ An exclusive rate for Yes, I Am Too Much: Pleasure, Power & Purpose Mastermind I October - April

✔ $200 off Bali Untamed Alchemy Retreat I April 2026

❗I opened these doors for YOU. My rates and packages are top-tier and high-caliber.  I do NOT do packages at this price point, but I was feeling the call to open a door.  

Now, it's your turn to sashay your way through it before it closes for good.

Become Her may be over, but your chance to work with me IS NOT!

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